Permudahkan hidup.

Aku selalu percaya, kalau kita buat baik kat orang lain, INSYALLAH seluruh alam akan mempermudahkan perjalanan hidup kita ini.

Contohnya, kalau ada orang nak potong queue aku di jalanraya. Memula tu memanglah aku macam marah lepas tu aku pun fikir, why not aku just bersangka baik pada orang tu and just let it be. Pada aku, Allah akan terus memberi ganjarannya pada aku dengan mempermudahkan perjalanan aku pada hari itu. Serius aku tak tipu.

Bersangka baik kepada orang lain sama lah seperti kita bersangka baik pada Allah. Kita percaya Allah itu sentiasa ada bersama kita, untuk memastikan segala-galanya berjalan dengan penuh kebaikan. Even dari kepayahan itu, kita pasti akan mendapat kebaikan - gajaran pahala berkat kesabaran kita. Insyallah.

Cuma sekarang ni aku sedang berasa hati teramat sangat dengan seseorang. Aku tak suka perasaan itu sebab tak enak and tak sedap di hati aku. Kerap kali aku istighfar bilamasa aku teringat dan terkesan dengan orang tersebut. Aku sentiasa meminta agar Allah memberi aku sepenuh kekuatan agar aku sentiasa bersangka baik.

Aku cuma mahu dipermudahkan perjalanan hidup aku, dunia dan akhirat.

Shame upon those men who oppress their wives.

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Mufti Ismail Menk:
Shame upon those men who oppress their wives.

• Giving preference to your friends over your wife is oppression.
• Screaming and yelling at your wife is oppression.
• Coming home late each night or coming to bed late each night without a valid excuse is oppression.
• Wasting time on the internet or phone, television or games whilst your wife is waiting for you is oppression.
• Not spending reasonable time with your wife is oppression.
• Not commending her upon her goodness, sacrifice and achievements whilst only harping on her weaknesses is oppression. Be fair!
• Not correcting her in the most loving manner and going around publicizing her errors or wrongdoings is oppression.
• Not providing at least the basic food, clothing and shelter for her is oppression.
• Not appreciating that she is someone's daughter or sister and treating her like a slave is oppression.
• Allowing your mother or family members to disrespect or maltreat your wife is oppression.
• Allowing others to invade her privacy is oppression.
• Not giving her the rest that she deserves post child birth is oppression.
• Swearing and cursing your wife is oppression.
• Making false promises to your wife is oppression.

These are just some ways that men oppress their wives.
Shame upon those men who oppress their wives!
Are you one of them? Well, change your ways, apologize and repent before the Almighty overtakes you with His Wrath.

Remember the Messenger pbuh says, "The best of you are those best to their wives."

Being judged.

Ada satu perasaan yang tak best dalam hati and I dont like this feeling. Those yang dah lama kenal aku sure tahu perangai aku macam mana. I will try my best to always be nice to semuaorang.

Aku kena maki pun, aku tetap bertenang tapi sampai bila? Kalau ada yang rasa perangai aku ni buruk, teruk, eksen, berlagak, egoist, then u shud look at yourself. Reason why aku buat perangai macam tu towards you. 

Be nice to me and I'll be nice to you. Korang nak judge aku sukahati koranglah. Bukan korang yang bagi aku makan. Aku cakap pasal judging, bukan pasal tegur aku utk ke arah kebaikan. Ada bezanya kat situ.

And this one feeling yang aku tak suka ni adalah feeling aku rasa uneasy atau tak selesa dengan seseorang. I am not being me, the happy cheerful me sebab aku rasa every single tindak tanduk aku kena judge.

Stop judging me! 

Konsep bersyukur.

Being bersyukur boleh membuatkan kita happy. Easy said than done. 

Bersyukur mendekatkan kita kepada Allah tapi kita kena ingat kita still ada kehidupan untuk diteruskan di dunia ini. Semakin kita dekat dengan Allah, bukan bermakna kita perlu jauh dari dunia.

Dunia dan akhirat hendaklah seimbang. 

Wujudnya kita di dunia ini tidak seharusnya menjadi kesusahan kepada orang lain. Allah murka pada orang jenis seperti ini.

Ingat tu.

Ok. Aku merepek. 

By not being happy doesn't mean aku tak bersyukur. 

Aku bersyukur but I need to have progress in my life. 

I need to have a better life. 

Kena audit diri.

Ciao.